Alter Ego Exposed

We went to a house party last week. I will say the hosts were really relaxed and tried as best they could to make sure we were comfortable and enjoying ourselves. Initially I was having a good time but as the night progressed I became a little uncomfortable and I am not sure why. There should have been 2 other new couples going as they were listed as attending. They never showed. Which meant there were 3 couples (including us) and a single male. From the get go, 2 of the guys were into my wife (nothing wrong with that, she likes the attnetion). After a drink or so it was suggested we all move to the living room where a video was playing. I sat with one of the wives and another guy. While my wife sat with 2 of the guys and another chick, the chick was blowing one of the guys while they both played with m wife. Everyone played for a bit, I made an effort but it was a bit distracting. But trying to go with the flow we soon all go upstairs. At some point there was some non verbal communication between the 2 guys playing with my wife. They have obviously partied alot together. The one getting the BJ escorted my wife to the bedroom, while the other guy had sex with the chick that was doing the BJ downstairs. We got upstairs and I was sorta odd man out. 4 guys, 3 girls. I and another guy were playing with the one wife while her hubby played with mine but it was just too many guys for me, I just drank my beer and was a voyeur while everyone else got busy. Maybe the whole group sex thing is too much to quick.

We all went downstairs and waited an hour or so having drinks waiting to see if any of the other couples were going to show up. Another regular did show up but the it did not do it for me.

Eventually everyone headed to the pool. Wifey did not want to get in and was hanging out by the edge. The other guy approached her from the water and asked if he could go down on her. She was fine with that. A few min go by and the one wife comes over to me but by now I was just not enjoying myself anymore. The initial attraction was gone. I went in to dry off. After a little while the guy going down on my wife asks if he can have sex with her, she says yes but wants to check with me. She goes inside to dry off and hits the restroom. When she comes out the 2 guys are waiting for her. They ask if we are leaving, she says no and they say good, “WE are happy you are staying” (wife told me this part today). The one guys wife was still trying to get me interested but I was just ready to go. I am guessing the 2 guys were trying to get my wife upstairs, (the WE part) to themselves while I was downstairs with the other wife. I will say my wife would have gone up with them, she was having alot more fun than I and as I said before loves the attention. (I could be totally off here and they just were happy to have some new people show up instead of the same ol same ol). She came out to check with me and I told her I was ready to split. We left, calling it a night.

We are new to this and assume there is nothing here out of the ordinary going on for a house party, again the hosts were doing their best to make sure we were having a good time and comfortable. But being short a female just did not do it for me. Being short on females I was attracted to did not do it for me. And the 2 guys both possibly planning on taking wifey upstairs makes me uncomfortable, as well as them maybe being too good at this. I did not get the feeling we all would have gone up stairs. This is not to say I think they were up to no good but I was just uncomfortable. Sorry for being so longwinded, but being new to this something just does not feel right, maybe I am completly off here, which is why I am hoping for some insight into why I am feeling "off" about the whole thing.